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All female workplaces – nirvana or nightmare?

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And that my friends is a question I have wrestled with more than once in my professional career.  It’s the ultimate love-hate relationship.

And this is why. Hands up if you’ve ever had a conversation about the merits of a top loader vs a front-loading washing machine.  Or what about whether Napisan or bleach is the answer to getting that white shirt really white again.  Asleep yet?  And let’s not forget the obligatory poo conversations for an assortment of little people.  

I think you get my drift.  I find myself joining in these conversations but in my head I’m thinking ‘beam me up Scotty’.

And if it’s January everyone is on the obligatory diet due to the imagined weight packed on over the holidays.   Heaven help you if you have the audacity to bring in biscuits or eat a donut at your desk during this sacred month as I did a few weeks back. 

I thought everyone would be a bit more relaxed because it was February.  Diets never work right, so I figured everyone would have fallen hard off the wagon by then. But no – I was chastised by the office matriarch for the sin of temptation.  I am woman – I will make you fat.  That it was my life’s work to ruin her chance of thinness.

In an all male office they probably just slap each other on the back and say ‘enjoying that you fat bastard’ as everyone piles in for a second helping.  Now that is the kind of office I could live with. One where I could relax and have a biscuit with my cuppa without any comment or justification from either party.

Right so now that I’ve got that off one my chest I will say one thing for all female offices and for women employees in general.  In my experience I have found them to be harder-working, more productive, more focused, more competent, better communicators and they make better managers.  No question.

Most of the women in my office have young or school-age children.  I don’t have any kids myself but over the years I have concluded that far from being unreliable employees (as some employers tend to think); women with kids who also work are often exemplary employees.  They are fantastic multi-taskers, are highly productive and generally have their nose to the grindstone all day.  And the stereotype of all female offices being bitchy and competitive could not be further from the truth.  This is my experience.

And believe me there have been times in my life when it feels like I’ve had to cover for a conga-line of women going off on maternity leave, one after the other.  Their duties picked up by others often for no additional $$.  I can’t lie, at times I’ve resented it.  But despite that, over the years I have seen how hard they work when they return, how thrilled they are to be back in the workplace and how hard they work to prove they are worth it.  I’ve employed women returning who’ve had a long time away from the workplace to raise their children.  And in some instances have recommended them over other candidates because I can see they just want to be given an opportunity again.  In short these women have earned my respect.  So putting the poo conversations to one side – all female work places can be fantastic.

But for overall balance, mixed gender offices are definitely more fun.  I generally like to have a scattering of boys around the place.  And even a few men.

So all-girl offices, what do you reckon – nightmare or nivana?  What’s your experience.

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Tony Abbott the man who wants to be our Prime Minister – what were you thinking?   Talking about how sexy your candidates are?  Was that really the first adjective that sprung to mind ahead of intelligence or competence of your electoral candidate?  The thing about Tony is that he is a ‘man of a certain age’ who thinks complementing women on their sex-appeal will flatter them.  He is a product of his generation.  When Tony was propping up the bar at Uni, that kind of line probably got women into bed.  However coming from a married man in his fifties with three daughters, it’s sleazy, whatever the intention and not exactly in keeping with someone who wants to be PM.

Having said that, we’ve all messed up from time to time – it happens.  I don’t think it’s a hanging offence.  Surely Australia’s women won’t base their entire political decision-making on an ill-advised gaffe.   Maybe we all need to lighten up.

There will be more to come in the next few weeks that’s for sure.

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Afghanistan: Girl Power – People & Power – Al Jazeera English


I hope that one day we see the liberation of women in countries like Afghanistan.  It takes an enormous amount of courage for women to take any kind of stand in an environment that is so hostile to the liberation of women or even the existence of them.

Those who do stand up are often punished for their bravery.

What it will really take to make a difference, is for the men of Afghanistan to stand beside their wives, mothers, sisters and help drive the change towards equality.  Or at the very least an increase in tolerance and respect for women.

We have a long way to go.

Afghanistan: Girl Power – People & Power – Al Jazeera English.

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We get the world we deserve when we do nothing and say nothing.

Apathy can be like a cancer in a community or a workplace.  I’ts the beginning of the end when nobody can be bothered.

A few years back there was a commotion one Saturday night and screaming and fighting could be heard from one of the apartments in the block.  That night a woman was murdered by her partner.

The next day when police were door-knocking local residences as part of their investigation, it emerged that nineteen households had heard the violence taking place.  Nobody called the police.   Everybody thought that somebody else would do it.  A couple of the neighbours told others they would call police but they didn’t.  The apathy that occurred that night resulted in the brutal death of one of their neighbours.

Life could have been been saved, but wasn’t.  The case ended up being used as part of an advertising campaign to encourage people to call police and not to assume that somebody else would do it.

We get the world we deserve when we can’t be bothered to fight for a better one.

The above case is an extreme example of the consequences of apathy but I’m sure it’s very common.

See something on television that offends you – let them know.  Hear a radio ‘shock jock’ sounding off in an offensive manner – get involved.  Activism can make a huge difference, even if we don’t think of ourselves as activists.

These people are right up there for being prepared to take a stand and for making a difference.  To them and others like them, I say thank you.

And whilst we’re on the subject of courageous women, here’s another one

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